A Day Without Mothers- International Women’s Day 2017
“I am not free while any woman is unfree, even when her shackles are very different from my own.” — Audra Lorde
International Women’s Day is a public holiday in Uganda; celebrating women in our communities here, in our lives and in our history. I am currently working with one of FullSoul’s partner organizations- Save the Mothers, here in Uganda, and have the chance to take the day off of work. Many of the International Women’s Day Platforms are centred around a Women’s Strike, proving that women make up a great deal of the unpaid work in our society, and protesting wage gaps in our paid workforce.
I loved this idea- while ‘drastic’, the concept of starkly and irrefutably proving why something is valuable by taking it away is a powerful one. Of course, it is not possible for all women to strike on this day- for their own personal reasons, or because quite literally our societies would crumble. While I love the idea and the power that it is demonstrating, as a woman, I am choosing to work today, working on truly unpaid work, writing right here for FullSoul.
Why is this just as empowering for me? Through my work with FullSoul and Save the Mothers, I see areas where women are absent, and see the devastation that that causes within families, societies and a country; these women are not on a strike, or not simply not empowered to work- they have died due to pregnancy complications or childbirth. They have developed complex physical complications during or prior to delivery that make them outcasts and unable to participate, in work, communities and even their own families.
As we know, in Uganda, everyday many women’s lives are at risk, due to pregnancy related complications- approximately 16 every day. This are easily preventable, leading to generations losing those strong women leaders and mothers. The loss of these women means the absence of mothers for a generation of children. It also means the loss of one of the most powerful aspects within development; women are necessary to further empowerment within a nation, and without these women, changes to better the whole will fall behind.
Women make up the majority of nurses and midwives in Uganda- we’re grateful that these skilled health care workers show-up, and assist in deliveries, antenatal (aka. pre-natal), and newborn care throughout a woman’s pregnancy. These workers are often under-paid, over-worked, and with very little resources to assist them.
I, myself, cannot do everything that needs to be done to help the women that are dying, simply by being mothers. No one person can- it takes communities, nations. It takes other women. But we can do our parts to make this job easier for those that have the ability to direct change; FullSoul supplies safe medical kits to hospitals in Uganda, so that women can have save deliveries, so health-care workers have tools to do their jobs safely, so babies can have their first breath and their mothers to raise them.
There are areas where Women’s Day is about proving how impactful a day without women can be; but there are areas where a day without women is the reality- So, for my International Women’s Day, I am finding wonderful power in doing what I can- finding my own voice in a movement, and creating a #Sindica for change that is greater than myself.
FullSoul Social Media Manager